Inspiration for every couple to become closer, happier, and build a dream together, The Discovery Tree of Love represents your partnership in life. Like a tree, a loving partnership is one that breathes fresh air into you day after day. Your roots planted deep into the ground sustain you year after year. Based on her life experiences, Yorit Tal will show you how to make the seven branches of your Tree of Love sturdier and more resilient. Your relationship will rise to a new level of joy, passion and commitment. You will learn how to live together in more harmony and bliss than you ever imagined, co-creating the dreams of your life and the life of your dreams.
Targeted Age Group:: 25-50
What Inspired You to Write Your Book?
My husband Doron and I have always had wonderful communication and I wanted to share some of our marital secrets.
From the first day we met as strangers in a shared car ride, we have been able to talk openly, without feeling like we were talking past each other. I have always believed that Doron listens to what I say, just as I listen to what he tells me. We never find ourselves in a quagmire of miscommunication…We’re not perfect, because no one can be. But our ability to say anything and trust that it has really been communicated and assimilated by the other adds a huge amount of joy to our conversations. We always walk away from talking to each other with a heightened sense of shared purpose and greater love.
Nine Principles for Authentic, Loving Communication
Based on all that I have learned, I have developed nine principles of authentic, loving communication for couples:1. Be true first to yourself. It sounds paradoxical but the first element of having great communication with your partner is always to be true to your own self. You need to own up to your feelings, needs, and desires if you are going to speak authentically and honestly with your partner. If both of you agree that you are entitled to express yourselves with truth, it will empower all your communications.
This principle prevents “residual” problems from coming between couples or breaking them apart. When you live up to being true to yourself, you don’t get into entanglements that happen because you don't say what you really mean.
A lot of couples—perhaps you included—do some sort of crazy “dance” where one person doesn’t say what he or she honestly wants. They somehow expect the other person to know what they meant. This results in hurt feelings, criticisms, recriminations, blaming and judgment.2. Identify your feelings; don’t hide them. To do #1 above—to speak truthfully—you have to know your feelings and what you really want from your partner…
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